Poker Solvers vs Relationship Solvers? (1 Viewer)

[CLKin]

Okay so we have poker solvers, GTO solvers and the like, can we talk about relationship solvers. It seems to me that when it comes to relationships that statistically a decision tree is a good way to determine right and wrong decisions or at least what to say.

Geez. Can anyone understand what I’m saying?

Thanks

 

[NotRealNameNoSir]

Trying to narrow down social situations to probability charts is usually a shitty way of living, bud. Want to vent?

 

[Aeternus]

You need to add some more variance to your actions and decisions, otherwise a savvy partner could easily exploit your frequency errors.

 

[improviseallday]

You need to add some more variance to your actions and decisions, otherwise a savvy partner could easily exploit your frequency errors.

Fiancée: I'm so excited to marry you. I'm all in. So help me God.

OP: <tanks>

Some say OP is still tanking to this day.

 

[WedgeRock]

Matters of logic don't apply cleanly to all women.

 

[TheBigTater]

Expecting realationship issues to be solved by A+B=C logic is crazy town.

 

[Poker Zombie]

Already been solved.

 

[Seeking Alpha Social Club]

Okay so we have poker solvers, GTO solvers and the like, can we talk about relationship solvers. It seems to me that when it comes to relationships that statistically a decision tree is a good way to determine right and wrong decisions or at least what to say.

Geez. Can anyone understand what I’m saying?

Thanks

Poker solver (left) versus a relationship solver (right).

Spoiler

In all seriousness, it sounds like you might be disagreeing with your significant other, and might be more interested in winning more than advancing your relationship. After 35 years of marriage, here's what I have learned:

1. If your partner isn't the right one, move on. It took me 10 years to figure this out, but once I did, it freed me up to find the right one. My 2nd wife and I just celebrated 25 years and life is wondrrful!!
2. Diversity is AWESOME!! Life would be boring as shit if everybody were the same. Embrace it, even if it's country music...LOL. Learn new things you never thought you would enjoy!! People spemd WAY too much time trying to change somebody else. YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOU!!
3. You should be willing to change as should your partner. Not because you want them to, but because they truly enjoy making you happy and you them. If this doesn't exist....go to #1 above.
4. TRUE LOVE is forged in tragedy. Couples who have not survived car fires, cancer, and extended hospital stays together don't have a clue. If you don't think you and your partner can walk those roads together and come out better in the backend, then I recommend #1 above. This requires months, sometimes years, of giving up everything to be at your significant other's side. Look for the person you would be willing to do this for.

My parting thought is imbeded in recommended #2 above. You can only fix you, so any relationship solver you develop should be one sided--only focused on how to make you a better partner.

Bedt of luck!!

 

[Goldfish]

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