30+ years ago, when i first started playing poker, our group had a simple rule: You provide the place, the guests provide everything else. I never hosted, but always provided the poker stuff -- chips, cards, etc.
I host a monthly tournament. 2-3 times a year, we provide punch and maybe a snack. Other than that, it's bring your own. I have some who always bring stuff, and I'm sure some who never do. We always seem to have plenty.
When I play at others' places, I typically bring my own drinks simply because they might not have what I like and I don't want the host to feel bad. I play in one where the host provides the food, the game rotates, and in a way I feel bad because I never host that game. But they aren't spending a lot of money on a real spread.
Charging for food is probably a bad idea. Passing the hat might or might not be OK, depending on the state. The "bring something to share" rule I think works anywhere.
Bottom line: Whatever your group is comfortable with is fine, as long as it's legal.
I host a monthly tournament. 2-3 times a year, we provide punch and maybe a snack. Other than that, it's bring your own. I have some who always bring stuff, and I'm sure some who never do. We always seem to have plenty.
When I play at others' places, I typically bring my own drinks simply because they might not have what I like and I don't want the host to feel bad. I play in one where the host provides the food, the game rotates, and in a way I feel bad because I never host that game. But they aren't spending a lot of money on a real spread.
Charging for food is probably a bad idea. Passing the hat might or might not be OK, depending on the state. The "bring something to share" rule I think works anywhere.
Bottom line: Whatever your group is comfortable with is fine, as long as it's legal.