Tips, tricks and advice for first meetup? (2 Viewers)

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Looking forward to my first meetup in a month, and I got to thinking. Is there anything you wished you'd known before you went to one?
  • Unofficial "PCF" meetup rules you stumbled on after you unintentionally broke them
  • Stuff you wished you'd brought (or stuff you wished you'd left at home)
  • Not obvious ways to help out the host or make things more fun for the group
  • Circus games someone should definitely know
  • Something that surprised you
Appreciate your thoughts. I don't get away by myself much anymore, so want to make the most of it.

EDIT - Summary / Highlights of PCF'ers Tips and Advice for First Timers

Learning Circus Games
  • Download Abby’s Mixed Game Cards on your phone
  • Learn to calculate a pot-sized bet
  • If you understand Omaha / Omaha Hi-Lo / BigO, you'll be able to learn everything else
  • Other common games: Scarney, Double Board Omaha, Drawmaha, Archie, Badugi, 2-7, Scrotum, and SoHe
  • Don’t be afraid to ask lots of questions – folks at meetups are friendly and want you to have a good time. No one looks down on learners
  • Don’t be afraid to tighten up while you're learning - playing like it's Hold'em will get you in a lot of trouble quickly
Poker Etiquette
  • Don’t sit in the middle if you’re not comfortable helping divide split pots
  • Get decent at dealing
  • Be prepared for Hold’em only tables to be skilled games
  • Hit and runs / locking up a win when you’re way up, especially at the action table, are considered poor etiquette
  • People will call games you don’t like. Fold quietly – the next game’s coming soon
  • If you have an especially bad day, if you're a good dealer and know the games well, you can offer to be the designated dealer for the cigar or "big boy" table
Attendee Etiquette
  • Offer to sponsor something if you can – bringing a bottle, some snacks, beer or energy drinks, etc
  • Snacks tend to be sweet or salty. If you want more healthy options, bring them
  • Feel free to offer to bring your poker set – it’s often welcome
  • Be a part of clean-up efforts at the end of the night whenever you can
  • Pitching in cash to help out the host is welcome
  • Don't be a pig – treat the venue with respect; clean up after your self
  • Sharing your phone charger or having extras is awesome
  • Always offer to split exotic beers, using glasses
  • Bring samples of any customs you have for pot splashers or to share
  • Pace yourself in terms of drinking / etc - it's easy to pass out if you're not careful
  • Help others get to/from airport if you can – never know when you’ll need it
Money / Bankroll
  • Don’t bring $50s
  • Plan for a bankroll. Think about what you want to spend each day; bring more money than you think you need, and only what you’re willing to lose
  • A thread on meetup bankroll planning
  • Learning pot limit circus games has some variance. Don’t go crazy on day one. It is a marathon, not a sprint. Set a mental note of how much you're ok with losing in a day. If you get to that threshold, make yourself a drink/grab a beer and hang out outside. Meetups are generally 3 to 4 days long and there's a lot of cards go be played.
  • The Old Fashioned table is not where you want to pop your Meetup Cherry. Find a limit game if you can; there is almost always a lower stakes table available at most meetups
Social
  • DO NOT PLAY POKER THE ENTIRE TIME. I often see first timers make the mistake of (trying) to play poker from noon to 2am everyday. Take breaks (and not just 5 minutes to piss and grab a snack), get a beer, smoke a cigar, and hang out and chat with folks away from the tables. You'll both rest your poker brain and engage in what's probably the most fun part of meetups - meeting cool chippers. Otherwise, you WILL crash.
  • Be like @onerand, take and post lots of pics
  • More often than not, there will be a cigar/old fashioned table outside going where you can sit in a chair off to the side and sit and bullshit with everyone out there
  • Take mental breaks and hang out outside and introduce yourself to anyone that may step out for a smoke/drink and listen to their bad beat stories. Most meet ups have groups that go out for breakfast/dinner together or have activities planned outside of the poker room. At @MegaTon44's meetup last year a group of us went mini golfing in the morning and still had plenty of time to degen that afternoon.
 
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Snacks and drinks tend to be sugar or salt based. If you want healthier fare bring it.

Help keep it cleaned up

Always offer to split exotic beers, using glasses

Sponsor something if you can

Guest poker sets are always welcome

Help others get to/from airport if you can cause you may need it someday

Learn:
Dramaha - all 59 versions
Scarney - all 212 versions
Archie and The Gang variants
Badugi
Makeitupasyougo 9+ card boards

Don’t waste time on:
Holdem
Pineapple and all 376 variants
Anything named for a city besides Omaha
 
Honestly meetups are the heartbeat of this community. I think you’re gonna be surprised at how super cool and friendly everyone is. There may come a time when I stop buying chips and I’m completely satisfied with the sets that I have but I don’t think I’ll ever stop trying to go to meet ups. Most of the old schoolers here don’t really even chip anymore, but they’re here because of the meet ups.
 
I’ll be attending my first later this year at Dallas. Answer I got for games from @CraigT78 was:

“Review the resource here on PCF—Abby's mixed games.

https://www.pokerchipforum.com/resources/abby99s-mixed-game-cards.45/

There are a TON of games in there, but the most common are Scarney, Double Board Omaha, Drawmaha, Archie, Badugi, 2-7, Scrotum, and SoHe. There are variants called of all of those, it doesn't get super crazy at a meetup, but knowing the basis of Omaha is important.”

GL!
 
There may come a time when I stop buying chips and I’m completely satisfied with the sets that I have
Leonardo Dicaprio Lol GIF
 
- Read a thread on how to calculate pot size bets before you go
- If you sit in the middle of the table, you will end up helping divide lots of split pots. If you don't wanna do that, get decent at dealing from an end
- Get decent at dealing anyway
- Don't play a hold'em only table unless you are really good at hold'em
- Many popular circus games are based on Omaha or Draw. Be comfortable with both
- Just because you have 6 cards in your hand doesn't mean you have to call
- Probably don't bring chips unless you have some kind of custom set
- Don't bet with fracs if @inca911 is at your table. or do :cool
- Don't take toll roads in PA
- If @ekricket offers a quest, accept
- Find a way to give back. For example, I spend most of my time at meetups at a table, play late, sometimes black out in inconvenient locations, and do not stay at the venues - so I am rarely around when the major cleanup efforts are underway. I therefore always tip out the host at some point, and bring plenty of "pot splashers" as a general thank you to the community
 
OP,

1)
Good etiquette is chip in for clean up, chip in for some of the costs.
You don't have to sponsor an ice sculpture, or 10yr Pappy shots of bourbon.
Something small to help offset the costs of toilet paper is good, or ask the host what you can contribute.

2)
Learn Omaha and Omaha hi/lo (BigO)
Almost every game is a variant of those. trying to figure out the other variants now would be overwhelming. Dramaha49 etc. You'll pick those up quickly at the table after one orbit.

3)
Dont be a dick. Unless the table sucks and are too tight. then trash talk them for they deserve it.

4)
If you're someone who has anger issues or might think that a slow roll is fight worthy. Dont go to a meet up.
 
I think it's great advice for someone not familiar with the games. And NPing includes draws and re-draws, but you can't get too crazy with a flopped nut straight, without a redraw. With 5+ cards, someone will surely make a better hand.
 
I think it's great advice for someone not familiar with the games. And NPing includes draws and re-draws, but you can't get too crazy with a flopped nut straight, without a redraw. With 5+ cards, someone will surely make a better hand.

Your advice is usually sage.
 
OP,

if your up a LOT at the action table it is VERY bad etiquette to hit and run, like going to a tighter, lower stakes table to lock up a win. Or suggesting everyone play a non gamble board game like clue, or Secret Hitler.
 
Download Abby’s card to your phone

https://www.pokerchipforum.com/resources/abby99s-mixed-game-cards.45/

If you have an iPhone, save to or choose to open the download with the “books“ app to easily search and find a particular game so you have it easily available as a reference if needed.

Don’t call OmaJack at a table or @MatB will leave the meet-up and never return (or maybe you do call it, choice is yours).

Oh yeah, bring one of these. It just makes things easier and saves a lot of time.

Im Rich Make It Rain GIF by A Little Late With Lilly Singh
 
Don’t bring $50s (I don’t mind them personally)
I made that mistake before.

I've only done @Irish and @MegaTon44 meetups but here's what I learned:

Also, don't be afraid to sit down and ask questions. There are a ton of really cool people
Just because you don't know how to play the game doesn't mean you shouldn't be betting pot.
Don't accept candy from @Ben8257
Practice dealing on large crowded tables.
 
Pitching in cash to help out the host is welcome. Hosting is a money pit and a lot of work. Toss in some home cooking. It is amazing the host ever gets to play.

Bring more money that you think you need. Pot limit circus games you don't know how to play very well tend to result in hemorrhaging cash. Tuition at the PCF school of poker isn't cheap. You might even need to do some bankroll management else you could go broke on day one. Not saying there are sharks, Ok I lie - there ARE sharks coming for your money.

Get some sleep. Most of us aren't that young any more -=- DrStrange
 
Going to my first later this year as well. I was going to post a similar thread myself!

Everyone I know thinks I’m going to get robbed or SA’d, they can’t believe people just like chips and poker enough to do these things.
 
Don't accept candy from @Ben8257
I needed and chuckle and this seriously just made me lol in an airport terminal waiting area, thank you sir.

To OP:
Aside from all the sage advice above, I have two things I like to tell meet-up noobs.

  1. DO NOT PLAY POKER THE ENTIRE TIME. I often see first timers make the mistake of (trying) to play poker from noon to 2am everyday. Take breaks (and not just 5 minutes to piss and grab a snack), get a beer, smoke a cigar, and hang out and chat with folks away from the tables. You'll both rest your poker brain and engage in what's probably the most fun part of meetups - meeting cool chippers. Otherwise, you WILL crash.
  2. Set your bankroll/losses in advance. If you're only comfortable losing $300 a night for 3 nights only bring that much. If you get coolered a few times in a row, read #1 above. Walk away and take a break. It's a little dated at this point, but the thread linked below has some notes on meet-up bankrolls. And I'd nothing else, just ask the host how games typically play. They're is almost always a lower stakes table available at most meetups.
https://www.pokerchipforum.com/threads/meetup-bankroll.23339/
 

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