You’ll only be the new guy for a short while. I certainly was in a hurry to not be the new guy and didn’t quite understand some of the “attitude” I got early on. I still haven’t been here even a year and you’d be shocked at how many meaningful friendships I’ve made. I have completed over 100 individual transactions buying and selling with dozens of people. Here’s some basics of what I’ve learned. Most of the skepticism toward new members is justified. Reputations are earned, not bestowed. And we (noobs) do ask some stupid ass questions, to be fair. If you take some basic precautions, you will get nothing, but love 99.99% of the time.
Pretend you just moved to a new part of the country and no one knows you. You walk through the door to a local tavern and the place goes silent while everyone’s sizes you up. Maybe you’re great! Maybe not. We don’t know. But, in a few months, if you’re not a compete ass, people will shout “Norm!” and you barely recall being the new guy. On the flip side, if you demand everyone in the tavern prove themselves to you, your experience will be different, shall we say. lol
Welcome and enjoy yourself. You can build some lifelong friendships here, in addition to some amazing chip sets. I’d miss my chips if they were suddenly gone. I’d miss my friends here more.