My first 2 sessions playing live I bought in for $300 and played super tight for real short sessions.
The goal wasn’t to win as much as to just get oriented to how the game runs and feels because as has been said here, you WILL be nervous.
It was TOTALLY worth it as you’re more overwhelmed by the process of the game more so than the play of the game.
I played super tight and nitty for about 1.5 hours just so I could watch and digest what was going on. There is a LOT going on and it made my head spin a bit!
The dealers are much faster than you’d expect (35-40+ hands an hour with an auto shuffler), chips move in and out of the pot quickly (pulling in bets, giving change, taking the rake out), and not much tanking or posturing by players.
Watch the dealer move chips when not in a hand a few times. Familiarize yourself with where they put the rake and any additional “drop” taken for promotional contests (high hand, etc). And how they collect and put tips in their tip box. It was fascinating for me to see how this worked and helped me get more familiar and comfortable with the “process” of the game.
As mentioned, straddles can be confusing… button straddle (SB is first to act), UTG straddle (UTG first to act), Mississippi straddle (now usually re-defined as an “any position” straddle), sleeper straddles (I never see this one), mandatory UTG straddle (not really a straddle then, is it?), playing with a “rock” (the stupidest thing ever, avoid at all costs). It took me a while to comprehend how the straddle worked and how it affected the game when playing live.
If given the option, always “chop the blinds” as a poker courtesy. (Some casinos don’t allow this). This is when it folds around to the SB with no bets or straddles. The SB may look to you in the BB and ask “Chop it?”. If you agree, then you both pull back your blinds and toss in your cards. Sucks when you have a big hand but the SB is saying he’s not planning to play, so if he folds he’ll lose his blind. It’s not worth the bad sportsmanship for a $1 win by you. Chopping the blinds also avoids the house taking a rake since there was no flop. You may see this no rake rule listed as “no flop, no drop” by the casino.
Maybe review seat change and table change requests and how/when to use them.
Review “buying the button” and how to re-enter the game if you leave your seat for a break and the blinds pass you by while gone.
Don’t forget to tip the dealer if you win a hand. It varies, but I only ever tip $1 per hand. Some people tip more for bigger pots. There’s lots of discussions about this here on PCF.
Be aware that in these small, local casinos most of the players are regulars. They are on a first name basis with each other and the dealers. Mentally, that can be off-putting and make you paranoid of collusion (rarely, if ever, true).
Also, be aware that a lot of the OMC (old man coffee) regs buy in for $100 and just keep announcing they’re adding on to their stacks when they get low, pulling their spare $25 or $100 chips out of their pockets. They risk the minimum to start and hope to build their stack bit by bit over time. One guy I asked about this tactic said it’s to limit his losses to a “modern” poker player who uses “strategies” at the table. Basically, they’re cheap. This keeps the game small which is to their advantage when playing a super wide range of crap—but frustrating for a player like me that wants to take max advantage of that high VPIP play. So just be aware of your own first impression to the table if you walk up with $300 in $5 chips (and maybe another $200 in your pocket for add ons).
Be mentally “okay” with losing your entire stack. It will happen sooner or later. This is the #1 thing I had to overcome. You don’t want it to happen, but when it does, you can’t let it eat you up mentally or emotionally.
Final tips:
(1) view your first few live sessions as paying for poker lessons… any money you lose is probably worth what you learn;
(2) play the short / super-nitty / observational session, then leave and digest/process what you experienced; then return later for your “play my game for real” sessions;
(3) bring a light jacket, sweater, or sweatshirt… poker rooms can be notoriously cold at times and you want to be physically comfortable, even if mentally uncomfortable.
(4) Have fun. Enjoy the experience, not necessarily the outcome.
Good luck!