@speshy - where in Malaysia are you located? I've traveled a bunch throughout Peninsular Malaysia (Kuala Lumpur, Penang, P. Lankawi, P. Tioman, Kota Bharu, Malacca etc.).
This was years (decades) back, but I remember sitting in a cafe in KL reading in Lonely Planet about a scam where Ferangi (foreign tourists) would be invited to a local's home and then convinced to get involved in a crooked card game. The tourist was supposed to be helping the homeowner cheat someone else, but they would end up being scammed and on the hook for as much cash as they had.
5 minutes later a friendly young woman sits down beside me and strikes up a conversation. 10 minutes later her partner arrives, and sure enough I am invited to their home. Once we get there the hard sell is on to get me involved in the crooked game (blackjack/21). 30 minutes of me telling them that I don't want to cheat someone, because I would feel bad if someone tried to cheat me, and they kicked me out of the house. I had to find a bus back into downtown, but I did have an adventure to write down in my travel journal!
LOL - please tell me that your game isn't like that!