I just started hosting cash games. We play .25/.50c with a $20 min, $40 max buy in, and reload to match the biggest stack. I send out an invite and plan on having the game last for about 5 hours (6pm-11pm usually). We order food, drink beer and it’s more of a social event. Usually play 8-9 handed. Most of my players aren’t “poker players” and are there just for fun. We usually have a few people buy back in for $40, but generally our game doesn’t play that big and by 11, some guys are ready to cash out. Anyone that comes late or announces when they have to leave won’t get gripes about cashing out. Usually it’ll be close to 11, and we’ll play a more degen friendly game 5 handed with who is left.
My age group is guys in their 30s-early 40s and some of us have young kids, wives, and families. Just happy to get together once a month and we all get it when someone has to leave early/come late. Like others have said. Capping the buyin, and blinds will help keep the game from playing to big. And if people want to play 1/2 with $200 buy ins they can play in the casino. Or make sure your hosting the right group. I’ve read on the forum it’s easier to make a poker player your friend, than it is to make your friend a poker player. Know your audience and you’ll have a great game !