I don't think we need to continue arguing and such. Folks shouldn't have been left in the dark, it's happened before, I won't be posting outside of here; just trying to wrap things up and ensure everything gets to everyone.
I take full blame and readily admit that I'm just not up to the task of being a mature member of the market at this time.
I don't think it anyone's business outside of knowing that the last items will be sent out by the 5th/6th, but it's also been pointed out now the unfairness of saying I'll share with x, y, and z and that should be good enough. Too much description read like complaining, so summary is with a somewhat tiny family we've encountered quite a bit of illness and lost lives recently. We moved across the world twice in a year. We've lost just a crap ton of "stuff" be it money or items due to really crappy people outside our control. Had a family member pull some heinous stuff, hence incarceration, and leaving me with financial decisions, POA decisions, etc. for aging/homed grandparents across the country. There's quite a bit more, but that's mostly what led to the end of year situation.
Again this isn't a complaint, I have a great life and wonderful immediate family. I knew that there were huge, life altering events upcoming, and honestly wanted to get rid of stuff that wasn't being used and help folks out before that hit. It was too much to juggle and ongoing events took me away from here, and I handled it horribly. In fact that's happened twice. That's literally it, as simple as that, the entire truth.
And as a result, chips delayed but out or getting out, and I won't continue posting or selling. Everyone should be able to move on shortly.
Edit: For future reference, you've seen this before. Someone f**ks up, and for some odd reason between that f**k up and them making it right, they don't communicate. Some may have been "shady". More oft than not, what you're seeing is someone creating a larger issue in their head than what it actually is. It becomes a monumental issue in their mind that a simple message can't fix, and instead they'd rather go to extremes to try and fix the issue at hand. But then it's the next day, and the next, and suddenly it's 3 weeks later, the issue wasn't fixed, communication wasn't made, and the issue is even larger in their heads. Now if you add to that that the group they wronged also serves as a primary social support structure, it becomes worse. Again not an excuse, and people that can't handle their business should *absolutely* not be allowed to continue, which is what we've seen with the last 3-4 folks (either didn't return at all, or self removed after making it right).
Sharing because the "dishonest" slant or not caring about you members is just beyond asinine. In a bit over a year, I've done far more than buy, sell, and post. When attacked I've previously grandstood on charity crap, or helping new folks, or never profiting here. But I've joined others and we put on many miles to grab their kid a good deal on some wheels. I've joined a small group on finishing college credits. I've joined a small group on losing some life changing weight (which I also screwed the pooch on leading). I just wanted to iterate that I'm not continuing out of respect for those who feel extremely wronged and so that Moderators don't have to deal with it. I'm unable to be a responsible member, so maybe I'll be back one day when I can be. But absolutely not abstaining from posting or buying/selling because I don't care or similar callousness - that's just ridiculousness.