Not familiar with Dockside 1963. That’s part of a resort on Mission Bay- haven’t been there for years so can’t speak to it.
Eddie V’s is just another steakhouse chain. If you like it, you’ll be good. It’s in that swanky tourist mall designed to capture convention goers. But as you’re in SD, I’d recommend you hit up something more local.
If you do go to Eddie V’s, or just looking for a nice SD experience, visit the Top of the Hyatt inside the Manchester Grand Hyatt next door. It’s a really nice bar ~40 floors high with a great view. (They totally do it up holiday style.) Drinks are a bit pricey- the price of admission, so nurse the drink, enjoy the ambiance, and head out to your next stop. It gets crowded around sunset because sunset views can be lovely. (Not sure what their NYE plans are.)
You can also pre (or post)-party party for cheap at the seen-better-days Kansas City BBQ across the street, where they filmed the piano bar scenes in Top Gun (tourist trap, but fun). Alternatively, you can get BBQ there another time. Quirky, but if you like Top Gun, it’s worth a visit to say you’ve been. Hahaha.
If you’re in that area, my wife just recommended Malibu Farm as well, which is tucked away in the original Seaport Village area. It’s not directly on the water, but it has great views as well.
There’s also Tacos al Gordo in Gaslamp, should you be looking for lunch in the area. Alternatively, for lunch, try any *bertos taco shop- they look awful, but they serve great SD Mexican food and are home to the CA burrito. (Robertos is the original, but Albertos, Alibertos, Roybertos, Filibertos or literally any *bertos will do.) For more, check out SD legend Mark Himmel’s
Ode to Robertos from years past.
Unfortunately, it’s looking to be in the low 60s- warmer than Chicago, but a bit chillier than usual.