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My Apologies to @chicubs1988 (1 Viewer)

I definitely see your point regarding sending a quick message that says "sorry, I got caught up in something, I'll ship these out ASAP" when it was said you'd have tracking yesterday.

Believe me, I've been in your shoes waiting weeks before chips that I paid for immediately shipped, but I tried to trust the process knowing that the seller was in good standing here and probably was busy with some IRL stuff. I ended up sending a follow up about a week later and got a reply a couple of days later apologizing and that the chips would go out the following week. Chips arrived safely and positive feedback was given.
 
Eriks said:
I fully agree with you @Pippa , a simple message saying everything is ok but more time is needed takes what, 1 minute? I’ll give whatever time is needed in your shoes but not communicating at all is pretty much never acceptable
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Also agree.... doesn't seem shipping is @Pippa worry Communication is..... I've had plenty of shipping delays in whirlwind sales but unless the pm got lost I always communicate! even from Vegas which is where Ill be tonight!!!!!!
 
JMC9389 said:
I definitely see your point regarding sending a quick message that says "sorry, I got caught up in something, I'll ship these out ASAP" when it was said you'd have tracking yesterday.

Believe me, I've been in your shoes waiting weeks before chips that I paid for immediately shipped, but I tried to trust the process knowing that the seller was in good standing here and probably was busy with some IRL stuff. I ended up sending a follow up about a week later and got a reply a couple of days later apologizing and that the chips would go out the following week. Chips arrived safely and positive feedback was given.
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I think we (as in the community) is waaaaaay too forgiving when leaving feedback (myself included). It’s such a stigma around leaving negative feedback that one doesn’t want to do it unless someone flat out ripped you off
 
Nice seeing you with your cat @Pippa
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Samuel said:
Maybe he is AFK but left his computer on, logged into PCF?
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I was going to say something similar. I’ve had PCF up in a tab that goes to “sleep” on a computer and accidentally clicking on it “wakes” it up and refreshes the page automatically. Happens on my iPhone too.

Unrelated to sales but sometimes I’m having a conversation with someone and I tell them I’m gonna be away from PCF for a while and will get back to them when I have a chance and then the above happens and I think the other person’s gonna think I’m checking PCF but not responding to them. :ROFL: :ROFLMAO:

But if I were in the middle of a sale, and someone’s messaging me, I’d take a few seconds to respond asap.
 
TheOffalo said:
I was going to say something similar. I’ve had PCF up in a tab that goes to “sleep” on a computer and accidentally clicking on it “wakes” it up and refreshes the page automatically. Happens on my iPhone too.

Unrelated to sales but sometimes I’m having a conversation with someone and I tell them I’m gonna be away from PCF for a while and will get back to them when I have a chance and then the above happens and I think the other person’s gonna think I’m checking PCF but not responding to them. :ROFL: :ROFLMAO:

But if I were in the middle of a sale, and someone’s messaging me, I’d take a few seconds to respond asap.
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Exactly my friend!!!!!
 
Eriks said:
I think we (as in the community) is waaaaaay too forgiving when leaving feedback (myself included). It’s such a stigma around leaving negative feedback that one doesn’t want to do it unless someone flat out ripped you off
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I hear you, but where do you draw the line?

Let's take this scenario as an example. Pippa pays for chips over the weekend. Seller states that he'll ship Monday. However, seller's loved one has to go to the hospital because of injury or illness or they themselves are hospitalized because they blew out their knee playing softball on Sunday. Pippa leaves negative feedback because he's upset chips didn't get shipped when stated.

However, as the seller here, I'd be really upset to have received a negative feedback due to something out of my control. I'm not going to be checking PCF if I needed emergency surgery or if my kid was sick.

I understand what you're saying, but these kinds of things are more nuanced than meets the eye. When I sell, I try to never say "I'm going to ship on "X" day", I just say I'll send tracking when I'm able, but if I can't ship for at least a few days, I make sure I say so.
 
Chill a little. He might very well be AFK while still logged in. I agree that he should just send a message, but I think you need to relax a bit @Pippa. This thread honestly makes me more cautious of dealing with you than with @chicubs1988.

Edit to add: Its not even 8 am yet in San diego. Not everyone is reading through pcf while doing their morning routine. (they are slackers obviously, but not the point here:LOL: :laugh:)
 
JMC9389 said:
I hear you, but where do you draw the line?

Let's take this scenario as an example. Pippa pays for chips over the weekend. Seller states that he'll ship Monday. However, seller's loved one has to go to the hospital because of injury or illness or they themselves are hospitalized because they blew out their knee playing softball on Sunday. Pippa leaves negative feedback because he's upset chips didn't get shipped when stated.

However, as the seller here, I'd be really upset to have received a negative feedback due to something out of my control. I'm not going to be checking PCF if I needed emergency surgery or if my kid was sick.

I understand what you're saying, but these kinds of things are more nuanced than meets the eye. When I sell, I try to never say "I'm going to ship on "X" day", I just say I'll send tracking when I'm able, but if I can't ship for at least a few days, I make sure I say so.
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I agree, it is a problem but a difficult one to solve
 
JMC9389 said:
I hear you, but where do you draw the line?

Let's take this scenario as an example. Pippa pays for chips over the weekend. Seller states that he'll ship Monday. However, seller's loved one has to go to the hospital because of injury or illness or they themselves are hospitalized because they blew out their knee playing softball on Sunday. Pippa leaves negative feedback because he's upset chips didn't get shipped when stated.

However, as the seller here, I'd be really upset to have received a negative feedback due to something out of my control. I'm not going to be checking PCF if I needed emergency surgery or if my kid was sick.

I understand what you're saying, but these kinds of things are more nuanced than meets the eye. When I sell, I try to never say "I'm going to ship on "X" day", I just say I'll send tracking when I'm able, but if I can't ship for at least a few days, I make sure I say so.
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Only I need is a message
End the story
 
Anybody else ever get a PM driving home and say "I'll answer in a little bit" then get sidetracked and forget, member sends another message a couple days later as a reminder... definitely has happened to me!

This is an established member of the community and outing him over failure to respond in a couple days is brutal. For the record we recieved chips from him yesterday and he has been nothing but amazing helping @FordPickup92 and I out!

Now put yourself in his shoes, feeling embarrassed from being outed over a couple days of not responding. I get it's a mistake, his response probably would have started with "sorry" now who knows. What could have been a good friendship is likely just a burnt bridge now. More bad blood we don't need on the forum.

For the record even if negative feedback gets left over this, I 100% would and will deal with my friend @chicubs1988 in the future.

Couple damn days... SMH
 
Eriks said:
I fully agree with you @Pippa , a simple message saying everything is ok but more time is needed takes what, 1 minute? I’ll give whatever time is needed in your shoes but not communicating at all is pretty much never acceptable
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Wait. He said, on Saturday, "I'll mail yours out on Monday and follow up with tracking." Today is tuesday. He isn't even a day late on communication yet.
I'm kinda feeling like @Pippa public stalking of this guy is worse behavior than being less than a day late with communication.
 
Ben8257 said:
Anybody else ever get a PM driving home and say "I'll answer in a little bit" then get sidetracked and forget, member sends another message a couple days later as a reminder... definitely has happened to me!

This is an established member of the community and outing him over failure to respond in a couple days is brutal. For the record we recieved chips from him yesterday and he has been nothing but amazing helping @FordPickup92 and I out!

Now put yourself in his shoes, feeling embarrassed from being outed over a couple days of not responding. I get it's a mistake, his response probably would have started with "sorry" now who knows. What could have been a good friendship is likely just a burnt bridge now. More bad blood we don't need on the forum.

For the record even if negative feedback gets left over this, I 100% would and will deal with my friend @chicubs1988 in the future.

Couple damn days... SMH
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@Ben8257 waiting for his chips from @RivieraDanny
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Ben8257 said:
Anybody else ever get a PM driving home and say "I'll answer in a little bit" then get sidetracked and forget, member sends another message a couple days later as a reminder... definitely has happened to me!

This is an established member of the community and outing him over failure to respond in a couple days is brutal. For the record we recieved chips from him yesterday and he has been nothing but amazing helping @FordPickup92 and I out!

Now put yourself in his shoes, feeling embarrassed from being outed over a couple days of not responding. I get it's a mistake, his response probably would have started with "sorry" now who knows. What could have been a good friendship is likely just a burnt bridge now. More bad blood we don't need on the forum.

For the record even if negative feedback gets left over this, I 100% would and will deal with my friend @chicubs1988 in the future.

Couple damn days... SMH
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I agree 100% with you
I can’t judge @chicubs1988
He have 100% feedback
But my first transaction with him and im
In this situation
 
upNdown said:
Wait. He said, on Saturday, "I'll mail yours out on Monday and follow up with tracking." Today is tuesday. He isn't even a day late on communication yet.
I'm kinda feeling like @Pippa public stalking of this guy is worse behavior than being less than a day late with communication.
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It is a little premature, I agree
 
upNdown said:
Wait. He said, on Saturday, "I'll mail yours out on Monday and follow up with tracking." Today is tuesday. He isn't even a day late on communication yet.
I'm kinda feeling like @Pippa public stalking of this guy is worse behavior than being less than a day late with communication.
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But why he watching the forum and no respond to mine and @RivieraDanny messages??????
I don’t care when he will ship the chips
 

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