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I got lucky with my first oncologist. He saved my life by battling with the radiology oncologist and convincing him I was a good candidate for radiation, even though we (I) had to go through a biopsy of a lymph node in my lung tp prove it. Yeah, that sucked.

At any rate, the RO saw the results and here I am, 10 years after my first diagnosis and 6 years in remission.
 
I got lucky with my first oncologist. He saved my life by battling with the radiology oncologist and convincing him I was a good candidate for radiation, even though we (I) had to go through a biopsy of a lymph node in my lung tp prove it. Yeah, that sucked.

At any rate, the RO saw the results and here I am, 10 years after my first diagnosis and 6 years in remission.
That is awesome!
 
It is so wonderful to hear you are getting better.
It’s also great to hear the type of man you married. We would all be so lucky as to have a partner with us during our time on earth that makes life better.
Here’s to hoping your recovery is swift and complete!
 
As always, thanks for sharing with us Tonya. Glad to hear you're making progress. Love to see the energy and the positivity. Keep it going young lady!
 
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Update 03APR26…………..

Well I lied about posting pictures of the room……. Maybe next time. I have been cleared by my OB/GYN. This is good news! Now Wednesday I get to have my reconstruction surgery. They will keep me for a day or 2. Scared … and excited. I got a new oncologist! I absolutely love her. And her PA. Bothe took the time to listen to my husband and myself. I have gotten to mow the lawn and work with my skid steer. Feeling good.

But mostly this post was to thank my PCF Family. I received a package today with a card and a tiger bank bag. I cried. The kindness all of you have shown me is absolutely amazing! I pray that I get the opportunity to meet a bunch of you. …… but thank you!
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Update 03APR26…………..

Well I lied about posting pictures of the room……. Maybe next time. I have been cleared by my OB/GYN. This is good news! Now Wednesday I get to have my reconstruction surgery. They will keep me for a day or 2. Scared … and excited. I got a new oncologist! I absolutely love her. And her PA. Bothe took the time to listen to my husband and myself. I have gotten to mow the lawn and work with my skid steer. Feeling good.

But mostly this post was to thank my PCF Family. I received a package today with a card and a tiger bank bag. I cried. The kindness all of you have shown me is absolutely amazing! I pray that I get the opportunity to meet a bunch of you. Not sure who Paul Somers from California is…… but thank you!View attachment 1662101View attachment 1662103
Well played, @Kam...
 
14APR26 UPDATE……………

Well here is another update ……….. I had surgery last Wednesday 08APR26. So far so good. They kept me overnight and let me go home Thursday evening. They did an ultrasound every hour on my “New” breast to make sure it had blood flow. It did. I look like rhe nightmare before Christmas dolls. I have stone on parts in here cut on parts there and I have a gazillion stitches inside and out. I’m split from hip to hip and stitches to show and I’m split all the way around my left breast area. It hurts to laugh and sneeze and cough and at my house everybody’s trying to be a comedian. It doesn’t help matters none then I’ve been told I can’t do anything so they’ve put me with a babysitter so I don’t do anything. Heck I can’t even go to the bathroom by myself. I did go to church. It took a lot out of me. I’ve only had to take a few pain pills and so far everything‘s good I go tomorrow for my post op. But I still can’t lift anything. I still can’t take a shower. Can’t go swimming. Can’t pick up anything heavy. I’m bored out of my Gord. My payroll is caught up for the week. I’ve paid all my invoices and all I can do is Shop on the poker Chip forum. So many beautiful chips so little money so if y’all see me on here, try not to enable me big gosh there are so many beautiful chips and I don’t know more serious note. Thank you for all the support for everybody on here for all the well wishes, the flowers the presence everything thank you my husband and I celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary in the hospital. It was Friday the 10th. I’m having to take some shot that thin my blood that is the most painful shot I’ve ever had in my entire life when he gives me my shot. I just cry and because I’m crying he’s crying so we just look like a bunch of goofballs over here, crying together holding each other, but we are still holding each other and I’m thankful for that. I told my kids the other day that that’s what love looks like it’s not a fancy dress or the nice meal or the next new car or a bigger house it’s bathing your spouse. Holding her head as she cries it’s helping her put her clothes on and helping her get up. That’s what love looks like and real man that’s what they do and I am honored to get to be Norman’s wife so humility I guess what God has been teaching me through all this because I’m a very independent woman and it’s hard for me to rely on someone else to do what I wanna do, but he put me a person to help me with everything I need and for that I am grateful.
 
Thanks for the update Tonya. Congrats on your wedding anniversary sounds like you have an awesome partner. Prayers for you…it appears to be a long tiresome difficult and boring but successful recovery!
 
14APR26 UPDATE……………

Well here is another update ……….. I had surgery last Wednesday 08APR26. So far so good. They kept me overnight and let me go home Thursday evening. They did an ultrasound every hour on my “New” breast to make sure it had blood flow. It did. I look like rhe nightmare before Christmas dolls. I have stone on parts in here cut on parts there and I have a gazillion stitches inside and out. I’m split from hip to hip and stitches to show and I’m split all the way around my left breast area. It hurts to laugh and sneeze and cough and at my house everybody’s trying to be a comedian. It doesn’t help matters none then I’ve been told I can’t do anything so they’ve put me with a babysitter so I don’t do anything. Heck I can’t even go to the bathroom by myself. I did go to church. It took a lot out of me. I’ve only had to take a few pain pills and so far everything‘s good I go tomorrow for my post op. But I still can’t lift anything. I still can’t take a shower. Can’t go swimming. Can’t pick up anything heavy. I’m bored out of my Gord. My payroll is caught up for the week. I’ve paid all my invoices and all I can do is Shop on the poker Chip forum. So many beautiful chips so little money so if y’all see me on here, try not to enable me big gosh there are so many beautiful chips and I don’t know more serious note. Thank you for all the support for everybody on here for all the well wishes, the flowers the presence everything thank you my husband and I celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary in the hospital. It was Friday the 10th. I’m having to take some shot that thin my blood that is the most painful shot I’ve ever had in my entire life when he gives me my shot. I just cry and because I’m crying he’s crying so we just look like a bunch of goofballs over here, crying together holding each other, but we are still holding each other and I’m thankful for that. I told my kids the other day that that’s what love looks like it’s not a fancy dress or the nice meal or the next new car or a bigger house it’s bathing your spouse. Holding her head as she cries it’s helping her put her clothes on and helping her get up. That’s what love looks like and real man that’s what they do and I am honored to get to be Norman’s wife so humility I guess what God has been teaching me through all this because I’m a very independent woman and it’s hard for me to rely on someone else to do what I wanna do, but he put me a person to help me with everything I need and for that I am grateful.
Feel well Tonya
 
17APR26…………

Just a quick update…….. I went to the doctor yesterday for my 1 week post op appointment. Had a great appointment. Got one of my 3 drains removed. Told I don’t have to take the blood thinner anymore. I don’t have to wear my binder…. I can just wear compression pants. His nurse will take my other 2 drains out next week. I see him again in a month!! All he could say was I just cannot believe it has only been a week…… the healing look phenomenal.

So…….. let’s start with the drains………. I’ve been walking around the house looking like Quasimoto with a grenade belt on, so I was excited to have one of them removed since when I went to the bathroom right before my appointment about to rip the stitches out of it that was unpleasant.

The blood thinner……….. that has probably got to be the most painful shot I’ve ever had in my entire life and I cannot give it to myself. I had to give it in the back of my arm, so my husband had to give it to me so he would give it to me and give me about a five second reprieve and it started hurting so bad that I would cry so now I’m crying so of course my husband‘s crying so here we are too grown folks almost 60 over here crying like a little babies so yes I was glad he told me I didn’t have to take those no more.

The binder……… My binder is about 6 foot long. We look like a spin top on a cartoon trying to get that Joker on. I have to kind of hold it in place and then roll into it as I’m pulling my drains out of the way and then hope to goodness that I don’t get off key because then I sling out hot mess all around so he told me I didn’t have to have it anymore.

I asked him if I could fly. He wanted to know why tell him I had a job in Texas that I wanted to help my husband with he said I don’t think so. Maybe after the drains but not before well OK I said well then can I get on a skid steer he wanted to know why because I wanted to drive and he said no he didn’t want know hopping around going on so here. I am still being babysat and still can’t get on any equipment but we’re gonna take the buses and I’ll let y’all know what happens in a month.
 
Doctor is no fun! I’m sure it’s for the best though! Glad progress is being made, you got this, Tonya. Almost to freedom.
 
14MAY26 Update……….

So a lot has happened in a month. Two days after I went home from this last surgery a quarter size blister appeared on the breast flap. No one seemed concerned except me. A week after my last visit the blister had grown about the size of the palm of my hand. Still no one seemed worried except me. They took a second drain out that day, but my third drain was still not ready to come out. I was told to come back in a week. So I came back in less than a week, because my drain tried to come out on its own and was not ready to. They finish taking the drain out, but did not put me on an antibiotic. My breast flap looked awful, but acted like it was no big deal. Told to come back in a week. I came back in 4 days, because I had a low grade fever and my breast flap and my stomach looked worse. They put me on an antibiotic and told to come back in a week. Well that didn’t happen. 2 days later we were headed home and my husband had to do some evasive maneuvers, because I had to throw up. So here we are on the side of the road ….. as I puke my guts up. We get home and call the Hospital and we decide to be there at 6:00am the next morning. We get to the ER and by this time my stomach looked like a rare steak and my breast flap looked bad. I barely have a fever, but they end up admitting me. So they had to put a new drain in and when they did the CT scan they found a pocket of fluid that was 12 inches X 5 inches…….. yes you read that right 12”X5”! When they put the new drain in they drained off 150cc in less than 5 minutes! All full of infection. They were not sure what kind of infection I had, so after the infectious disease, doctor got involved…….they found out I had strep MMSA. They had me on 5 different antibiotics…….. then if all of this was not enough… my sugar went up and they had to deal with that.

Norman had to leave on Saturday to start a big job, so he left before Mother’s Day and in the middle of all of this craziness. One of My daughters came to visit me on Mother’s Day with her husband and 2 kids (ages 5 months and 7 years) she ask the receptionist how to get to my room. The young lady said the children under 12 could go back. My daughter said it is Mother’s Day and I’m gonna see my mom for a minute and leave (she had driven 2 hours to get there). So the lady UNLOCKED the door and gave her directions to get to my room. About 5-10 minutes go by and my door is opened by not one, but two security officers. They tell me that my daughter had disregarded what the receptionist said. She was like no you unlock the door and gave me directions. The charge nurse said she didn’t like confrontation. I was like heck maybe she needs retrained or maybe you could have come to my room and politely asked them to leave, not sent security first thing to remove a 5 month old. And a 7 year old.


HOT MESS! But memorable.

So here I am posting on the forum, sitting on my couch, with yet another babysitter. But I am home and I am grateful. I go next week for a Plastic Surgery appointment, a drain removal, an endocrinologist visit and an oncology visit. I shall keep you all updated on the craziness!
 

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