Honestly it depends on how new the players are for me. With my friends outside of poker who rarely ever play, .05/.05 for total newbs, or .05/.10 for my casual university friends, game will last maybe 3 hours, usually less.
The main game is either .10/.20 or .25/.25, with the smaller one being the one that lasted the longest. I think the smaller stakes helped with that tbh even though it wasn’t a huge difference, rebuys started at $20 and it was only later into the night that we had big rebuys. I think that helped our newer player want to stay longer, we ran until 6:00am.
I’d like a .25/.50 game, we’ve done it before, but only if it’s not too imposing on our newer player. I’m here for a good time, not to super compete, and if the stage is set for a bigger game, up to 1/2, I’m there for it, but likely won’t push for it at my home game unless it’s a majority request.
For rebuys, we’re doing a loose interpretation of match half the stack, which has been working. Been toying with the idea of only rebuying for 100BBs until after a certain time, the more game poker players will likely stay past midnight and be willing to throw more money in anyways.
Tournaments: we don’t really do them, if it’s a home game I’m not a fan unless it’s a turbo, 2.5 hours tops. I’ve only done $10 with bounties, rebuys up until break. I also have a $30 tournament setup but we haven’t done it yet. With two tables minimum 12 people I’d run it, mainly because once we get to the final table we’d have the other table to start the cash game.
Don’t be afraid to toy around with it, feel free to ask for feedback and be willing to adjust. Also, it’s YOUR game, so you get to decide the feel for it. My main guiding points are: be considerate of my players especially the new ones, offer grace but be willing to confront any nonsense immediately (hasn’t had to happen), and be very selective of who gets to play in my home, which is honestly the biggest reason I haven’t had to deal with any BS in my house