I miss my friend on PCF (3 Viewers)

[kirchhausen]

Why's @Ben8257 holding that cigar like a blunt?

Whats a blunt?

 

[CraigT78]

Why not ask him what he thinks...... There's nothing I would post that he doesn't know about...... Maybe reach out and see how he is instead of insulting me......
Fuck those two and their silence..... Pretty sure @Ben8257 agrees.....

Because IDGAF what anyone thinks. This whole thread is childish. Grown ass men (and maybe women) stirring the drama soup on a poker chip forum about a failed relationship. My apologies if you're feeling insulted, but if you are, maybe ask yourself what the point of this thread is?

 

[RivieraDanny]

Because IDGAF what anyone thinks. This whole thread is childish. Grown ass men (and maybe women) stirring the drama soup on a poker chip forum about a failed relationship. My apologies if you're feeling insulted, but if you are, maybe ask yourself what the point of this thread is?

If YDGAF Then why not just scroll on by without interaction?? Isn't that easier?

 

[CraigT78]

If YDGAF Then why not just scroll on by without interaction?? Isn't that easier?

Because I felt the need to speak up when you started bashing other people.

 

[RivieraDanny]

Because I felt the need to speak up when you started bashing other people.

Again You're defending the wrong douchebags here..... and for the record, I never bashed anyone by name just by 100% confirmed douchebag actions. Scroll on by dude..... I for one actually care for good people

 

[CraigT78]

Again You're defending the wrong douchebags here..... and for the record, I never bashed anyone by name just by 100% confirmed douchebag actions. Scroll on by dude..... I for one actually care for good people

I'm defending no one. Just calling you out for your attacks on folks and for continuing to stir the pot.

If you don't agree that that's your intended action here - I'm happy to start a poll.

 

[Frogzilla]

i like poles

I mean polls

 

[Saoliver]

Again You're defending the wrong douchebags here..... and for the record, I never bashed anyone by name just by 100% confirmed douchebag actions. Scroll on by dude..... I for one actually care for good people

You say you talk to him everyday, yet write an open love letter to him begging him to post.

Ben can post or not post as he wants. Ben can stir the shit up and rehash this again if he wants. No need for you to white knight for him.

And honestly, I’ve had zero issues with Ben, other than airing his dirty laundry when he felt hurt and betrayed. But it seems he’s either moved on or buried his sword. Yet you want to carry the torch for him.

 

[CraigT78]

i like poles

I mean polls

A poll started by a Pole? I'm your huckleberry

 

[RivieraDanny]

I'm defending no one. Just calling you out for your attacks on folks and for continuing to stir the pot.

If you don't agree that that's your intended action here - I'm happy to start a poll.

Do what you will dude. Start a poll? Great idea. That way everyone can see where everyone else stands. Great idea. Ben likes it too. Mr. Ben just was telling me how positive and great the thread made him feel, then comes @CraigT78 to not ask how’s Ben or say anything positive just to defend a couple douche canoes. I’m with him is saying GTF on out of my thread. Scroll on by. As for being in a poker chip forum bud, I’m pretty sure it is in off topic. Kind of like a whiskey thread or a cigar thread. Etc. etc.

 

[DMack]

Because IDGAF what anyone thinks. This whole thread is childish. Grown ass men (and maybe women) stirring the drama soup on a poker chip forum about a failed relationship. My apologies if you're feeling insulted, but if you are, maybe ask yourself what the point of this thread is?

Totally agree with you. PCF is a totally drama-free safe space.

 

[RivieraDanny]

You say you talk to him everyday, yet write an open love letter to him begging him to post.

Ben can post or not post as he wants. Ben can stir the shit up and rehash this again if he wants. No need for you to white knight for him.

And honestly, I’ve had zero issues with Ben, other than airing his dirty laundry when he felt hurt and betrayed. But it seems he’s either moved on or buried his sword. Yet you want to carry the torch for him.

Ben’s been very active in this thread in case you didn’t notice. He also thanked me for starting it. So I guess you can gtfoh also. And if his hurt and betrayal was an issue for you in public. Scroll on by. This is productive y’all showing your true colors and fake internet friendship when it benefits you and a turn when it doesn’t.

 

[RivieraDanny]

Because I felt the need to speak up when you started bashing other people.

White Knight!

 

[doublebooyah85]

White Knight!
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Hey @RivieraDanny sent you a PM on a side subject.

 

[RivieraDanny]

You say you talk to him everyday, yet write an open love letter to him begging him to post.

Ben can post or not post as he wants. Ben can stir the shit up and rehash this again if he wants. No need for you to white knight for him.

And honestly, I’ve had zero issues with Ben, other than airing his dirty laundry when he felt hurt and betrayed. But it seems he’s either moved on or buried his sword. Yet you want to carry the torch for him.

I will always "White Knight" for a true friend! ALWAYS. That's what true friends do

 

[CraigT78]

Do what you will dude. Start a poll? Great idea. That way everyone can see where everyone else stands. Great idea. Ben likes it too. Mr. Ben just was telling me how positive and great the thread made him feel, then comes @CraigT78 to not ask how’s Ben or say anything positive just to defend a couple douche canoes. I’m with him is saying GTF on out of my thread. Scroll on by. As for being in a poker chip forum bud, I’m pretty sure it is in off topic. Kind of like a whiskey thread or a cigar thread. Etc. etc.

Done.

https://www.pokerchipforum.com/thre...-relationship-drama-to-a-public-forum.102503/

 

[RivieraDanny]

Hey @RivieraDanny sent you a PM on a side subject.

Got it bud Responded

 

[CraigT78]

Ben’s been very active in this thread in case you didn’t notice. He also thanked me for starting it. So I guess you can gtfoh also. And if his hurt and betrayal was an issue for you in public. Scroll on by. This is productive y’all showing your true colors and fake internet friendship when it benefits you and a turn when it doesn’t.

I haven't discussed anyone involved in the drama you are rehashing. This is between me, and you.

I hope all involved are doing okay.

 

[BarrieJ3]

This thread isn’t for Ben.

The people posting in this thread are posting genuinely for Ben. But OP can’t help but insert his thoughts, beliefs, etc. into comments.

If this was about Ben, then the focus would be….Ben. Not others, not rehashing things, not being angry for someone else, etc. And every comment here kept it about Ben…except OPs.

And Ben is a good human. Of course he’s going to appreciate the nice comments and thank OP for “his heart being in the right place”. Pretty sure however, he’d rather not have this reopened again and again, to have new chippers ask what happened, to have people discussing this offline, etc etc.

That is pure selfishness. To take something like this, and make it about you. A “support for my best friend”, but let me get all my comments in too thread. And to bring it up in several threads replying to weeks/months old comments?

Hate the others involved all you want, no one is holding you back from that. But maybe take the time to read these comments with the intent in which they’re written and be a better friend to your “best friend”.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

 

[Thisfiendis138]

 

[CraigT78]

This thread isn’t for Ben.

The people posting in this thread are posting genuinely for Ben. But OP can’t help but insert his thoughts, beliefs, etc. into comments.

If this was about Ben, then the focus would be….Ben. Not others, not rehashing things, not being angry for someone else, etc. And every comment here kept it about Ben…except OPs.

And Ben is a good human. Of course he’s going to appreciate the nice comments and thank OP for “his heart being in the right place”. Pretty sure however, he’d rather not have this reopened again and again, to have new chippers ask what happened, to have people discussing this offline, etc etc.

That is pure selfishness. To take something like this, and make it about you. A “support for my best friend”, but let me get all my comments in too thread. And to bring it up in several threads replying to weeks/months old comments?

Hate the others involved all you want, no one is holding you back from that. But maybe take the time to read these comments with the intent in which they’re written and be a better friend to your “best friend”.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Well well well. Look at that, I agree with Barrie.

3/6/23 @ 1:52pm CST.

Mark it down.

 

[Hornet]

 

[RivieraDanny]

This thread isn’t for Ben.

The people posting in this thread are posting genuinely for Ben. But OP can’t help but insert his thoughts, beliefs, etc. into comments.

If this was about Ben, then the focus would be….Ben. Not others, not rehashing things, not being angry for someone else, etc. And every comment here kept it about Ben…except OPs.

And Ben is a good human. Of course he’s going to appreciate the nice comments and thank OP for “his heart being in the right place”. Pretty sure however, he’d rather not have this reopened again and again, to have new chippers ask what happened, to have people discussing this offline, etc etc.

That is pure selfishness. To take something like this, and make it about you. A “support for my best friend”, but let me get all my comments in too thread. And to bring it up in several threads replying to weeks/months old comments?

Hate the others involved all you want, no one is holding you back from that. But maybe take the time to read these comments with the intent in which they’re written and be a better friend to your “best friend”.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

Ask @Ben8257 for yourself instead of trying to cast some crap on me. He supported the post. Knew and knows the post and I'm pretty sure this isn't about me at all.... Why did you have to bring even more negative to throw around? Soroll on by.... unless you like a few others are master of my "intentions", the OP had nothing to do with the situation just with my friend......... In fact it specifically mentions Not here to re-hash.

@Ben8257, I miss your inciteful posts, even when they are a BenBook!

Your crack pot humor and immense knowledge that new and old chippers alike look forward to and some even depend on!

You need to return to one of the things you have such knowledge of and passion for.....

I miss seeing you here! and I'm sure I'm not alone!

No one "wins", only someone looses... DO NOT LOOSE! You don't deserve it!

We speak almost daily, not too many days go by without a convo, but here, I miss ya buddy!

You surely did not deserve the situation you landed in but I'm not here to re-hash that. I'm here to bring you back, I'm hoping the support and friendship pours out in this thread from all the others that I'm sure are missing your great activity here!

Don't let a bad situation consume you. Don't do it.

One of your Best Friends,
RD

 

[RivieraDanny]

Its so easy to scroll by without comment, like not even enter the thread.

 

[RivieraDanny]

This thread isn’t for Ben.

The people posting in this thread are posting genuinely for Ben. But OP can’t help but insert his thoughts, beliefs, etc. into comments.

If this was about Ben, then the focus would be….Ben. Not others, not rehashing things, not being angry for someone else, etc. And every comment here kept it about Ben…except OPs.

And Ben is a good human. Of course he’s going to appreciate the nice comments and thank OP for “his heart being in the right place”. Pretty sure however, he’d rather not have this reopened again and again, to have new chippers ask what happened, to have people discussing this offline, etc etc.

That is pure selfishness. To take something like this, and make it about you. A “support for my best friend”, but let me get all my comments in too thread. And to bring it up in several threads replying to weeks/months old comments?

Hate the others involved all you want, no one is holding you back from that. But maybe take the time to read these comments with the intent in which they’re written and be a better friend to your “best friend”.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

 

[buffalojim]

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Lol, does anyone under 40 even know who that is?

 

[Saoliver]

Ben’s been very active in this thread in case you didn’t notice. He also thanked me for starting it. So I guess you can gtfoh also. And if his hurt and betrayal was an issue for you in public. Scroll on by. This is productive y’all showing your true colors and fake internet friendship when it benefits you and a turn when it doesn’t.

You’re full of shit. If the purpose was to get Ben back to his old self, posting often and at length, then I would have applauded you. That’s a good friend.

But that wasn’t your purpose. Your purpose was to publicly bring up all this shit again, and show that you are the loyalist of loyal friends. You already said yourself that you talk to him every day. But you come here and stir shit up again, repeating all the same support you already said in December. These comments are about your ego. Not about Ben.

 

[EmptyPocs]

Its so easy to scroll by without comment, like not even enter the thread.
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like I am doing now

 

[SiouxperStack]

You’re full of shit. If the purpose was to get Ben back to his old self, posting often and at length, then I would have applauded you. That’s a good friend.

But that wasn’t your purpose. Your purpose was to publicly bring up all this shit again, and show that you are the loyalist of loyal friends. You already said yourself that you talk to him every day. But you come here and stir shit up again, repeating all the same support you already said in December. These comments are about your ego. Not about Ben.

It could be to show Ben how many people value his presence and support him.

 

[David O]

I was just scrolling but have to comment. It is healthy to debate but I doubt you will get anyone to agree on ONE point of view on an internet forum. Let's keep this clean and not break any site rules.

Carry on!