I guess it’s inevitable if you host long enough: Eventually, some of your regulars die.
Today, one of my favorite poker buddies—seemingly healthy, who led a vigorous and active lifestyle—passed away from a heart attack at age 64, thankfully in his sleep. None of us saw it coming. It’s a major blow for his family, the community, and our small group of guys who have played together for 10-12 years, sometimes as often as weekly.
This particular reg also was the host of our game for about five years, prior to my taking it over.
A question I’d like to put out to the PCF community of hosts: When this happens, do you do anything special at your next game? Or host a special tourney or other event in their honor? Or just propose a toast, then shuffle up and deal? There will of course be other services and a memorial for his wider circle of friends, but I’d like to also do something for/with our group.
Today, one of my favorite poker buddies—seemingly healthy, who led a vigorous and active lifestyle—passed away from a heart attack at age 64, thankfully in his sleep. None of us saw it coming. It’s a major blow for his family, the community, and our small group of guys who have played together for 10-12 years, sometimes as often as weekly.
This particular reg also was the host of our game for about five years, prior to my taking it over.
A question I’d like to put out to the PCF community of hosts: When this happens, do you do anything special at your next game? Or host a special tourney or other event in their honor? Or just propose a toast, then shuffle up and deal? There will of course be other services and a memorial for his wider circle of friends, but I’d like to also do something for/with our group.