Jimulacrum
Full House
Interesting comments. I always think of poker as just a boys night out - social and fun with some competition thrown in to spice it up.
I tend to think of poker players as getting a bad wrap and just being normal guys.
Then you see the other side of it - the current Eli Elezra mess is everything the average person is afraid of - big name players welching on debts, multi-accounting online, stories of pros setting up mechanics to cheat rich players, degenerate players going broke, threats of violence
You can see why people outside the game might have a different viewpoint.
I feel about the same as you do, and I'll defend poker all day and night, but I'd be lying if I were to say it doesn't have its ugly side. If you stick to the best games—traditional, unraked home games, for the most part—you'll be spared from crossing paths with it often, but it's pretty prevalent in public cardrooms and underground games.