How can I get more players? (2 Viewers)

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I tried to have a game tonight, but ended up cancelling it, because I was only able to get 5 players to confirm to play, and 2 of those players are notorious for cancelling last minute or just not showing up.

I am in my mid 30’s and most of my players are my age or younger. Many of us have kids and therefore can only play very sporadically, and the younger players that don’t have kids usually have plans on Saturday nights (which is usually the only night I can have a game).

I am curious if anyone has any tips to expand my player pool with players that might be more available to play.
 
Try and make the game a regular, routine thing for a set day of the week in a regular interval. Always consider and cater to your regular players. Is there a day of the week that the young, single players and other players with families can agree on to play? Maybe Sunday? Make it a social outing during the football games on Sundays, maybe?
 
5 players counting you or 5 players plus you?

6 players seems just fine for me. Even if you only had 4 total you could still have a fun game. Maybe multiple turbo tournaments or a small stakes cash game?
5 players including me, and when I say 2 of the players are notorious for cancelling, I mean 60% of the time or more
 
How many people in total have you talked to about playing poker?

What kind of stakes do you play?
 
Try and make the game a regular, routine thing for a set day of the week in a regular interval. Always consider and cater to your regular players. Is there a day of the week that the young, single players and other players with families can agree on to play? Maybe Sunday? Make it a social outing during the football games on Sundays, maybe?
My new goal now that I can have games again (after our last Covid lock down) is to have more regular games. I plan on having them every second Saturday. This is as frequent as I can have them, because my wife works weekdays and I work every second weekend.
 
I agree with the regular time and place and yes have free goodies, good food, and a full bar. Might even offer a trophy to the big winner of the night or month.

Yesterday, the owner of Casino Chico here in California made a video to attract people. Not that we’re ever empty, I think he just likes the limelight. Anyways…

He usually offers sex, nonsense, and much more but this week he stepped up to a 25k straddle. Crazy. These videos he makes are NOT SAFE FOR WORK AND VERY VULGAR which unfortunately is just how we like it here. Please beware this video. Click at own risk, and yes he did a 25k straddle first hand and he always does several K blind all night. Hit me up if u ever wanna be on the list, just don’t forget to Bring your big boy pants and ask for me, they call me the Goat.


 
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If people have busy social lives, especially during the summer months it can be hard to get a game.

Try Monday or Thursday nights, especially once football starts getting played.

always be recruiting new players. Ask your regulars to recruit as well. You want to get to 20-30 players as a pool to hopefully get 6-8 to be able to play any given game.
 
How many people in total have you talked to about playing poker?

What kind of stakes do you play?
I have a decent player list (31 players), but they can play so infrequently, that it feels like it’s not enough, especially since many of them are new parents and/or having more kids.
 
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Check Meetup.com for your area to see if there is a local poker group already. That is how I became part of the larger network of players outside of my immediate friends.
 
Pool halls and bowling alleys are a breeding ground for poker games and poker players. If you have any interest in such things, joining a pool league or bowling league will quickly lead you to being able to get to know people that are worthy and trustworthy enough to add to your invite list. And very shortly, they will bring +1's.
 
all my players are from work aside from my wife and a few family members... but i try to plan ahead by about 2 weeks to a month and constantly remind my co-workers the day of the poker game.
 
Check Meetup.com for your area to see if there is a local poker group already. That is how I became part of the larger network of players outside of my immediate friends.
This. I've gotten a ton of players this way. I'll post a meetup group every 6-8 months or so. I get players in the game and then close it down (they want money each month to keep it open). If a game isn't growing, its dying.
 
1) Try making it only once a month until you start getting better attendance.

2) Make it a non-Saturday (when people tend to make other plans).

3) Have the game always fall on the same day, e.g. the first Monday of every month. That way people know way in advance not to schedule other things that night. If it is regular, that night becomes inviolable and spouses know to not schedule other stuff on their partner’s one poker night a month.

4) Hold the game no matter what, even if only two people show. Just keep at it until it works (or you have to give up).

5) Find a polite way to let people know that more than one last-minute, non-emergency cancellation means they won’t be invited again.

6) Try to find other games in your area, get out there as much as possible, and keep an eye out for players who would fit into your group. While one should be politic about not “poaching” from other home games—ask the host before mentioning your own games—social hall and other quasi-public games are a good source for finding players.

7) Ask your regs to suggest people who could join to build up the roster.

8) Lastly, be honest with yourself in evaluating your own game, to be sure there is not some other reason besides kids etc. that is keeping people away. If only 3-4 people out of 30+ invitees are showing up, either the list doesn’t really include many avid poker players, or else maybe something else is up, for instance:

* Are the stakes too high for your group? Or too low to generate interest?

* If it’s a cash game, is there a high rake? If a tourney, is the pay structure lousy?

* Did the game get a bad rap somehow, e.g. was there a rumored cheat in the game that drove people off? Or someone who otherwise made it uncomfortable for others to be there?

* Is the atmosphere comfortable and friendly, with at least a few snacks? (I knew a guy who tried to host, but would charge people for beer, and bark at them if they brought their own. That didn’t last long.)

I don’t mean to suggest that you’re doing something wrong… I just think it’s worth always doing some self-criticism/soul-searching if things aren’t working.
 
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The chips won't matter, for chippers sure but for regular folk they won't really care one way or the other
The tables, space, and chairs help.
Having offerings of beer/beverages, some kind of snack whether it's a hot dog roller or popcorn machine, soft pretzels and nacho cheese... it may take a bit financially to get things going, you can ask your players to bring donations but I would let them get to that stage on their own. The biggest thing is the environment and the people, having a good crowd. Players that show up on time, players that don't disrespect other players. Being organized, (for tournaments) have your starting stacks ready to go when people arrive, offer on time bonuses (generally a single 1k chip or something of the nature) to encourage people to be on time, have a clear display of your time clock and blinds (just throwing out ideas, you may already do this)
Also having clear house rules, and handling any situations that may arise in a timely and fair manor will also bring better players and a better environment.
I agree with maybe starting on a week night when more people are available, have friends inquire with friends to bring new players. If you get solid recruits, have them reach out to friends and family they may know. Once your game becomes solid, switching back to a Friday or Saturday night will be easier as people will want to come.
Never be afraid to tell someone not to come back if they disrupt the comfort of your game or players. I agree that maybe starting out getting things going with the football season approaching may be a good way to branch out, just be careful of folks getting distracted by TV action during a hand. I also recommend using an evite or group text, the evite is great as it offers yes, no, and maybe along with reminder emails the week of. Last minute cancellations are ok sometimes, but if you have 2 regulars that bail more often than not don't waste your time. Just be honest with them, a simple hey I need more commitment or I will be obligated not to invite you as our game is dependent on you being here. As the game grows them showing up occasionally won't have such an effect.

Do you play primarily hold em for cash games? Maybe introducing mixed games slowly, or bomb pots and straddles, different things to keep the game fun (if you don't already do these things, just brain storming)

Also, please don't take any of the above in offense as I don't mean to come off that you don't know how to host a game, just thinking of smaller details that really do make a difference in regards to getting more players, and good people.

Edit- I also agree with the above, perhaps knowing the stakes, and pay outs would be a bit helpful as well
 
I should add: If it’s a tourney, you can offer early-reserve bonus chips plus an on-time arrival bonus.

For example, if the tourney is a 20K starting stack on Mondays at 7:30, offer +3K for reserving by Friday at 7:30, and another +3K for being in the door and paid up by 7:30 pm on gameday.
 
  • Network with the existing players and play in every game you are invited too. There is only a small segment of the poker playing population that actually likes to play on a regular basis. Always be adding new players
  • Cash is FAR better than tournament style to maintain a regular game though most casual player think they like tournaments better.
  • If you have a decent cash game with decent players, avoid the temptation of raising the stakes too high even if it’s requested. I would say finding a large enough pool of regular players at higher than $1/2 is very difficult. Even $1/2 with casino comfortable players is hard to maintain. I had a regular weekly game of limit $2/4 that went on for a few years. When the casinos started spreading cash no limit my crew wanted to move to $1/2 NL. The game practically dissolved in a few months. No shows and last minute cancels all the sudden became a regular occurrence. People are embarrassed to admit they don’t like the probability of losing a few hundred dollars every week no matter what they tell you.
  • I actually think decent chips, cards, and a table matter in that it makes the game seem more legit and special to casual players
  • I recommend a $.25/.50 cash game with $50 buyin to get new players. If they get more comfortable move to .50/1 and stay there. As you network and grow your player base you will be able to determine the $1/2+ crowd. Hold those games as a “special event” and start to form a second group.
  • Over the years I’ve networked into 3 poker groups - my friends who occasionally play poker, a group of solid players that like regular games, and group of casino type players that won’t even show up unless it’s at least $1/2 and the bitch about moving the buyin up. Over the last few years I’ve played 75% of my poker with the middle group and I think that’s the sweet spot.
 
Thanks for all the advice!
Usually most of my games are cash games.
I plan on having a tournament sometime soon, but want to wait until (hopefully) I can get attendance for the cash games up first.
We play $0.25/$0.50 nlhe.
I have brought up different variations before (plo, short deck, bomb pots), but the majority of players were not interested.
I’m hoping this won’t be a reoccurring situation, since I got enough players for two tables about a month ago, but I would still like to expand my player pool, to hopefully avoid this happening again.
 

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