Of course, there would be some vocal mourning too, by women.
They would point out, while crying themselves, the most tragic and unfair circumstances of the deceased person's life, to provoke sympathy and tears to just everybody, including the harshest men around.
In the old, traditional culture of my country, it was an obligation to cry, for all attendants in a funeral.
In today's Wetern bourgeois tradition, you should not cry, and if in doubt, you should wear sunglasses.
Both "diktat"s are unnatural.
I was able to not cry in both of my parents' funerals; I was even able to read in the church, to my father, his beloved poem by Constantin Cavaffy, about "the feelings of the Dead not having been appreciated".
My New Yorker cousin (born and raised there) severed ties forever with his sister (who wanted to be mainstream American), when she said to their aunt, at their mother's funeral "Vantho, stop this" (she was dirging in the old Epirot way).