I normally run my events with the clause “bring a six pack or a snack to share”. I provide a few minor on hand snacks and whatever beer was left from the last game. I often have plenty of people bringing snacks and beverages. I still get Players donating/tipping a few extra bucks (at cashing out). This isn’t expected, but it’s appreciated. I apply that towards new cards, and on hand soda/snacks that people don’t bring.
I also play a buddy’s game, who runs things very differently. He provides a nice spread, and just sets out a tip jar, which gets a donation between $5 and $20 from each attendee.
Last night I tried a little experiment. I very publically indicated in the invite, and event reminders that I would be providing all the food and beverages, including dinner, beer, snacks, etc.. I did not ask or announce that donations would be asked for, but figured I would put out a food donations jar in case anyone wanted to contribute. I provided upwards of $80-100 worth of food and drinks for 10 Players, and the donations jar was conspicuously (and completely) empty. It was a few of my regulars, mixed with a few new people, and I was a little surprised. I even received fewer cash-out tips last night...
I certainly wish I could afford to just supply food/beverages for everyone, but I host 1-2x per month on avg, so that would be between $1000-2000 of food costs per year.
I like to host, and I like to provide a nice environment for my guests. I thought it might be nice (for a change) to have guests not worry about bringing stuff along, and I’m not even looking to break even... it’s weird, I have no problem asking people to bring a six pack/snack to share, but I don’t like the thought of saying “I’m proving food, please contribute money”. I also know I could probably poll my Players to inquire what they’d want to do. I might do the poll thing, but I’m probably going back to the BYOB format. It’s easier, i don’t have to cook, etc.. most importantly it has been working. Probably no need to fix it.
I also play a buddy’s game, who runs things very differently. He provides a nice spread, and just sets out a tip jar, which gets a donation between $5 and $20 from each attendee.
Last night I tried a little experiment. I very publically indicated in the invite, and event reminders that I would be providing all the food and beverages, including dinner, beer, snacks, etc.. I did not ask or announce that donations would be asked for, but figured I would put out a food donations jar in case anyone wanted to contribute. I provided upwards of $80-100 worth of food and drinks for 10 Players, and the donations jar was conspicuously (and completely) empty. It was a few of my regulars, mixed with a few new people, and I was a little surprised. I even received fewer cash-out tips last night...
I certainly wish I could afford to just supply food/beverages for everyone, but I host 1-2x per month on avg, so that would be between $1000-2000 of food costs per year.
I like to host, and I like to provide a nice environment for my guests. I thought it might be nice (for a change) to have guests not worry about bringing stuff along, and I’m not even looking to break even... it’s weird, I have no problem asking people to bring a six pack/snack to share, but I don’t like the thought of saying “I’m proving food, please contribute money”. I also know I could probably poll my Players to inquire what they’d want to do. I might do the poll thing, but I’m probably going back to the BYOB format. It’s easier, i don’t have to cook, etc.. most importantly it has been working. Probably no need to fix it.