Upcoming Leave Of Absence (1 Viewer)

JMC9389

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I'm not sure if anyone will care, but I was told this week that the company that currently owns the building I work at will be divesting from the property and have sold it off to another company. My employer is contracted by the current owners to provide healthcare providers to staff their buildings. Since they will no longer own the building, what we've been told is that the new owners have no long term interest in retaining the services of my employer as soon as the ownership transition that starts in April is complete a few weeks after it starts.

In English, unless my employer is able to find another building for me to work in, I'm going to be laid off. It is far from a sure thing that my current employer will be able to find somewhere for me to work, even on a part time basis. I had a very honest conversation with my manager today, whom advised me to start looking for work elsewhere. This is something that happened very suddenly that not even my boss' boss knew about until it was announced yesterday.

Yesterday and today have felt surreal and like a bad dream. Shock yesterday has been replaced my anger today. It's fucking bullshit that I risked my own health taking care of COVID patients in the first subacute building in the state to accept COVID patients last April, caught COVID myself, went back to work after considering walking away from healthcare, put my wife and son at risk by being directly exposed to COVID on a daily basis, made countless sacrifices in not seeing a lot of my family and friends because of this, and a year later now, to thank me for it, I'm going to be out of a job? Fuck that noise.

This isn't a good bye forever, but after I wrap up a couple of loose ends, I'm going to be logging off and giving my wife my password to change until I'm back on my feet and have a stable source of income again. Fortunately, we have enough of savings to keep us afloat for the intermediate term, and because of this, nothing will be hitting the classifieds, so don't ask.

I still plan on hosting microstakes games at my place but will probably max out at $20 or $30 a night in terms of buy ins.

@Irish , I still plan on attending your games as long as I am financially still able. I also still plan on attending the meetup in June, but with what kind of bankroll, I'm not sure.

@dennis63 , I still plan on making good on the order I placed with you late last year. If the order comes in later this summer, God willing I'll be in the swing of things again and there shouldn't be a problem. If for some reason I'm still not back when the order comes in, send me an email and I will do my best to work with you. I think you should have it, but PM me if you need it.

Same with you @alecnetwoodworks . I still plan on completing payment on the order I have with you.

If I'm forgetting anyone that I will owe money to that I'm forgetting, please PM me and I will work with you the best that I can.

I was working on a MD-50 mold cash set with J5 that is now going to indefinitely be on hold. I don't think I'll be able to afford it in time to be all paid up in time for the next run of the mold even if I'm back sometime this summer. This makes me really sad. When it does get made, it's going to be an absolute banger though.

You guys want to know the kicker? I just found out also that my wife and I are expecting our second child after morning sickness that just started up again made her take a pregnancy test that showed a positive result. I can't even enjoy this because I'm too worried about how the hell we're going to afford it if for some reason I can't find full time employment by the time the kid is born.

This all being said, please do not send me anything out of sympathy. I'm going to return it without any queries or argument. I'm a grown adult and can figure this out.

I'll leave you with a one last, but not the last FUCK COVID that you'll hear from me for a while.

Just one more time for good measure. FUCK COVID.

Always the best,

Joe
 
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P.S. If anyone wants to keep in touch, shoot me a PM and we can exchange email addresses, or something.
 
Sorry to hear... but Congrats on #2! I hope you're back on your feet in no time
 
@JMC9389 - I wish you the best in the hunt. It sounds like you are in healthcare, and I imagine that you will find something quickly.

As to the forum, stick around, don’t buy anything, and then brag to us all when you get a 20% raise.
 
Just a blip in life. I’m sure you’ll land on your feet, my guess you’re in high demand. Nine months later when you’re holding #2 (not the poop @WedgeRock) you’ll look at this post and wonder why you were so worried/upset.
 
HI;
I am sorry to hear your bad news, but also happy for you of the blessing your got.
I will send you a pm with my addy, i do not know your skill set but will be happy to forward it to a few friends who are in the medical field.
jake
 
This absolutely sucks Joe!! Damn brother, PM coming... you guys will land on your feet but Brie and I know what this feels like man and no words make it better.

While unfortunate timing, seriously Congratulations on the new arrival. This is a speed bump in the road, you will make it through and if there is anyway we can help let us know.

Forever your chippin brother Ben
 
We have never had an interaction, but I'm pulling for you man. The write up tells me you have a good head on your shoulders, so you got this. Congrats on your second little one and I'm sure you will be back at it in no time. This is just one of those curveballs life likes to throw at you.

FUCK COVID!
 
Sorry to hear that Joe. Good luck with your job search. You’ll be back on solid ground in no time. Congrats on the next baby!
 
Congrats on the news of your second!!

I have no doubt that a person willing to work in the conditions you described to support a family will land on their feet.

Good Luck!
 
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If you just want to shoot the shit, we're here. And congrats on #2.

F*ck Covid!
 
I remember way back when I struck up a casual conversation with my employer about how things were going and the owner replied he thought everything was great. So I said, great I am going to start looking for a house close to work (I was commuting almost an hour each way). So fast forward to the day my house purchase is closing and that morning I get called in to the office and I get fired. Holy Fuck! So instead of the best day of my life - suddenly it is the worst. I am buying a house and moving to a town that I don't even have a job in.

Unbelievably the people selling their home were in the middle of a divorce and the same day the wife slaps a lien on the home so it can't close. I was like, they violated the agreement so we don't HAVE to close do we? And the lawyer was like no but give it a few days and we will settle it and the house will close. He couldn't figure out why I was so happy.

But now I don't even have a place to live because we had given notice on our apartment and we were moving out the next day. Fortunately my landlord was able to move the new renters into a different unit or else we would have been out on the street. Then I had to reverse all my address changes etc etc.

It was a whirlwind 10 hrs of hell, agony and desperation.

I still don't know what to do for work but that exact same day that I get fired I grab a local newspaper, spot my dream job and 30 days later I am back at work. I bought another house in the same town 6 months later, directly across the street from another house we had looked at earlier during the first house hunt. Still in the same house and job 22 years later.

So things may seem bleak but positive things could be right around the corner and I am sure everything will be for the best!

ps 4 years later my former employer went out of business.
pps It wasn't all perfect, the first house had a better space for poker.
 
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Man, sorry to hear my friend, if you need anything let me know, even if just to chat a bit.

When one door closes, another (and often better) door opens.

And a hearty FUCK COVID!
 
I'm a grown adult and can figure this out.
No doubt. But the self-made man is a myth. Smart grown adults ask for, and accept, help. Hope to see you back with great stories about jobs & kiddos soon.
 
Hey Joe, that’s a lot for anyone to absorb in 2 days. Like others have said, remember that you have skills that are in demand. Congrats on the upcoming birth of your second child! Wishing you a speedy return to work and back to PCF

last but not least F**K COVID!!!
 
You seem like you e got a good head on your shoulders, so you’ll be back up and running in no time.
Congratulations! Children are the greatest blessing we have. You’re a lucky man.
 
Like others have said, this is just a bump in the road. With your skills, you’ll definitely find a better situation!!
Congrats, on #2!!
Finally, Fuck Covid!!
 
I'm sorry to hear of your employment situation. As someone who've been through similar situations a few times, I do know while it is an absolute terror as it is happening, you will eventually end up in a better place because of it. I wish you a quick and happy return.

Congrats on your growing, blossoming family!
 
Joe, I am so sorry to hear that. I lost my job in October of last year and just recently starting working full time again. I can understand the weight that bears on your mind and heart right now, and I don't even have children to care for. I will say I hope the best for you moving forward, and finding work will be a success in the near future. I'm sure Ben has already said it but if there's anything at all you need just ask, we will do what ever it takes to keep ya smiling!
Being proactive and logging out of the forum is likely a painful choice, but a wise one.
The only other thing I can really say, I know it is easy to see the glass is half empty and has a giant fucking hole in the bottom draining every ounce of juice left, but always see the light at the end of the tunnel. Perhaps your desires to find a new career are being decided for you through this. Perhaps this could be a blessing in disguise, and you come through in a better place than you started. Stay strong! Hope to meet you at Matt's game this summer!
Brie
 
From what I’ve seen from you on here you’re a genuine good person and I hope nothing but the best for you. Take care, Joe. Congrats on that baby, it’s a blessing.
 
Congrats on the news of an upcoming new child, and best of luck with the new job search. Exciting times! :tup:

Every time I changed employers -- at least eight times over the past 40 years -- it always turned out to be an improvement. In my experience, the bark of changing jobs is worse than the bite.
 
Sorry to hear about this Joe. I'll miss your input around here on cards! As others have said, it's always shocking to hear that news, but the vast majority of times it winds up working out for the best. Good luck to you!
 
Sorry to hear the bad news, hope you can get back on your feet soon, all the best.

I haven’t had a job for the past few months, and it’s been tough. We are currently selling almost everything we own and I’m going to school for 3 or 4 years. I’ll always be an electrician in some ways, but will train for a new career.
 
Congrats on the child, Joe!

I can feel your frustration and am right there with you. Bullshit and unfair. But you have the opportunity to overcome and make an even better move for you and your family. If you are in healthcare I’m sure you will get thru this rough patch quickly. Hope to see you back soon!
 
Joe -- First, sorry to hear about the forced job change. I can attest also that every job change I ever had was an improvement. I know yours will be, too.

Congratulations on the news of the new addition to your family coming soon.

Finally, don't worry about those chips. They'll be safe and sound on a shelf for you to claim at any time in the future -- six months, a year, or longer.

PM sent.

Dennis
 

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